Hello all,
Well, Elizabeth and I have made it to our final stop on this trip. Beijing. Last night we said goodbye to Matt and headed to the Shanghai Train Station. I have no idea where this last week went. It's hard to believe that we will be flying home in less than a week!
Our stay in Shanghai was great. We were able to take it easy and still see a fair bit of the city. We spent one of the days visiting the Eastons (for those of you who know them). The Eastons are family friends who I have know for 10 years believe it or not. Anyway, Elizabeth and I went out to visit them at their apartment and experienced expat-land in Shanghai. They live in a beautiful area, a resort really, that in no way lets on that it is in China. It was an interesting contrast to where we were staying.
A couple of days ago we went to the Yuyuan Gardens. They were beautiful! And surrounding the gardens are markets selling anything and everything you could ever want. It was fun to barter with the merchants. They very much enjoy the interactions and are disappointed if you don't get into it.
My favorite tactic by the merchants was them taking one of us by the arm and saying, "You are beautiful. Very pretty, I give you pretty price." They then made an offer and when told it was too expensive they said, "You give me your high price." So we made an offer (generally 1/4 to 1/2 of their original offer, but sometimes lower) and then they would stick out their bottom lip and say, "Oh no, too low. What your next high price?" If you are persistent with your price you can generally get it or at least something close to it. And if not, you walk away and they say, "okay, okay I give you good price." At which point they will make another offer, not quite as low as you had stated. If you shake your head and continue to walk away they more often than not they will come after you and say, "okay, your price." As you pay (your price) they continue to look at you with that pout and might even say "and 10 just for me." Meaning they want you to give them 10 yuan ($1.25) for them to pocket.
Also fun has been trying to pick up a bit of Chinese. It's not anything like other languages that I have studied. When I was in Russia staying with Elizabeth's family way back when I was able to piece together the Cyrillic alphabet as well as start to understand some of what was being said (mostly vocab, not so much the grammar), it just doesn't work that way with Chinese. There is no figuring out the alphabet like that- there is no alphabet. Instead there are characters which represent words and can be put together to make compound words. The crazy thing is that written Chinese is uniform throughout the country while the spoken language vary greatly. So a Mandarin speaker and a Cantonese speaker could read the same book with no problem, but should they try to read it to one another they wouldn't understand each other at all! And then there are the tones, so one word said with the four different tones can mean four completely different things.
One of our train bunkmates taught me about ten words which proved to be quite useful and we have used those as well as a few others that we have picked up along the way, but Chinese is definitely a language that requires more than a passing interest in learning to get very far.
Well, we didn't get much sleep last night so I think I will be heading in to take a nap.